I have recently got admission in PhD and would be joining shortly. I do wonder if you ask this blog just to get supporting advice. The only thing they value it's themselves and their career. There is still a chance you can work out your differences, but it will require major concessions on both sides. Don't forget too that IF you are successful in turning the lights on and deconverting her, the family would resent you the rest of their lives. I cried watching Kung fu panda 2. I would advise you to try to be as understanding as you can of her point of view, because having you world view shattered is very difficult and can take a long time to recover from. Sounds like classic "flirt to convert. The woman provides advice and counsel but doesn't preside. You don't need to worry about living paycheck to paycheck.
And the nonmember spouse may just put pressure on the member spouse to spend more time with them. Would she be okay with having a home that is split religiously. Women do not get to hold the priesthood and function in an equal role with men. There's a reason so many Utahns are on anti depressants and anti anxiety meds. But life is long and eternal and all righteous people will choose the right at the end. And how little some men understand the value of a well-dusted baseboard. Know her limits on substances. If so, you have a chance.
Unless you have some super amazing other dating prospect there isn't a huge reason to cut this relationship off now. For me, one of those bouncers is my marriage to the most wonderful woman alive. I now think that 2 is the only reasonable choice to make, even as a man в staying single my whole life в until and unless I find the woman whom I cannot live without, the woman who is a true companion to me. It's easy to forget why I chose to be with him in the first place. I married someone that wasn't of my faith and it worked great. I ran across your post out of desperation.
Then she took a vacation to Utah and in her letter to me she stated that she had seen the Temple, and I never heard from her again. Its so good to be a part of this blog. But if your faith is a key part of your life, this is huge. Why would you behave any different now. When we were dating he made it very clear to me that he had no desire to come back to church. He is dealing with the aftermath of a failed suicide while I spend my time trying to keep busy at home.
