Second, in my experience mormons have been some of the kindest people I've ever had the privilege to know, and they have not lived up to the cult image you describe. Sorry you had to go through this, but it's for the best if she's about to leave on a mission. I feel selfish to never be around but this is my dream so much so that I refuse to have children because I dont want my kids to have a workaholic mother who's never there. Have any of you wives found the same thing. Yes have moved away from family at 7 months pregnant to knowing no-one and starting from scratch and having no support network especially from husband who couldn't wait to get away and had the cheek to say he dreaded coming home some nights, poor him, I dreaded being home most days. We are long distance, and it is hard, because when we are together I spend much of time alone waiting for him to come back from the hospital. What goes on in those sacred temples.
In response to the anonymous comment posted April 3, I am not married but have been dating a medical student for about four years, he is in his second year of residency and it has honestly been difficult because when he graduated medical school he had to move five hours away to start his residency program so we travel back and forth and our relationship is serious but im scared that things will never get better as far as his busy schedule, even when im there to visit he is on call and im basically on a mini vacation by myself. A lot of people are religious. The most important thing is an open dialogue, as you say, and utmost respect for the other person. I am sooooo proud of him but his career has broken me in a way I don't know if I can piece back together. The truth is I miss being together. I've been doing it wrong. The important thing is whether or not your spouse will support you in your endevours to live your religion. A stiff dick has no awareness How's a lifetime of garments and 3 hour meetings sound.
You should ask yourself if you want to have input on the way your children are raised. In the endвthe very endвGod loves my husband even more than I love him. We had a long distant relationship for 3 years. There is no question this is the true church. Marrying a non-Mormon is not something you do it is something that happens. I still find it an endearing quality in my spouse, though I miss him sorely. Plan on rolling your eyes A LOT at family get torturers together. So you stay calm, stay pleasant, and try not to let it eat you alive.
It was a huge shock to me and caused a lot of worry on my part. If I were you, I would just nope out of it and move on. I appreciate your honest, and I really like the way you phrased things, particularly this sentence: Thank you for your comments. Weirdly, one of the best sexes I ever had was with a lesbian who felt remorse and as though she had betrayed her fellow lesbians. If you and she are sealed in a Mormon temple, your children will be can be sealed to you. When I was a teen, my first boyfriend was a convert and people would comment on that instead of how nice he was to me. You are brave and good people and seem to be raising wonderful children who will be lights for everyone with whom they come in contact. I am dating a wonderful man, amazing. I would not have wanted to be dismissed as crazy and unworthy of attention when I was still a member, because it wouldn't have been true.